I will start by saying weddings are not for the weak, and being a member of the wedding party especially is not for the weak. Weddings are so beautiful, but they are an insane amount of work, and it's true: no wedding will ever be perfect. My experience consists of going to a couple family weddings as a baby and one wedding in their backyard; all as a guest. So when I was asked by my best friend a year ago to be her maid of honor, I was honored of course. However, I had no i